Sunday, 23 October 2011

Some people are just confused and its sad really..

There comes a time when you can look at a person and see the confusion within them. It could be any moment really, you could be in a workplace and might see a co worker who just doesn't know what he wants, you might be married to a person and they might start showing random regretful signals, you might like someone and start getting mixed signals from them...

Its everywhere, sometimes people just don't know what they want, this could be due to a lot of reasons. Some people might be unsure of what they want to do in life, some people might be insecure of their own decisions due to low self esteem, some people might be afraid to fall into a relationship.. whatever it is. At the end of the day make sure you do not let those people confuse you, on your path, do try helping them. Do give the helping hand, do give helpful advice, do make the first move and openly tell someone you like them. Their confusion could be due to reasons emotionally deep and they might need you but it can get to a point where their confusion starts radiating off and starts entering you. This is a moment where you need to take a step back and understand yourself, you need to make sure your comfortable in your own skin. Do not fall into a hole while trying to pull someone else out, confusion is a very contagious thing which latches onto you if your not careful. Especially with jobs, subject choices at college, relationships and so much more. Never let others confusions seep into your mind and start thinking for you, if someone is confused, after a considerate amount of catering and time.. its tough but you have to move on. You cannot sacrifice yourself, you cannot let someone else's thoughts make you question your own life and you cannot let someone else's thoughts make you feel insecure.

Your wonderful for being there for them, hopefully those people restored themselves, if they didn't then its truly sad.. some wonderful people just never climb out of this trap but only dig it deeper.

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